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Resources for neurodiverse relationships, ASD ADHD assessments, and boundaries communication

Download these FREE PDFs to get an overview of my coaching practice and how I approach handling issues in neurodiverse relationships, including insights on ASD ADHD assessments, as well as boundaries communication. 


Also, be sure to check out my MEDIA page for informative podcasts and videos.

💠 Roadmap to Hope & Healing (couples) (pdf)

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💕Roadmap to Joy (Individual) (pdf)

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💠 Roadmap to Discernment 2026 (pdf)

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The A-B-C-D-E's of Neurodiverse Couple Burnout (pdf)

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💕 Boundary Script-A LOVE Sandwich (pdf)

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Neurodiverse or Narcissist? Traits & Facts (pdf)

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Space & Grace suggestions (pdf)

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Safe People-checklist (pdf)

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Self-Care Worksheet (pdf)

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Uniquely Us book about neurodiverse Christian ASD ADHD relationships

YES! Neurodiverse relationships can thrive by prioritizing self-awareness, setting clear boundaries communication, and adjusting expectations to foster emotional safety and growth. Implementing key strategies such as individual development and engaging in ASD ADHD assessments can significantly reduce conflict and increase joy.

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Coaches Corner podcast about ASD ADHD relationships

Cassandra Syndrome is defined as the chronic emotional distress and loneliness experienced by neurotypical individuals in neurodiverse relationships with neurodivergent (ASD/ADHD) partners. It is characterized by severe emotional deprivation and trauma resulting from a partner’s lack of emotional reciprocity. Understanding ASD ADHD assessments can aid in navigating these dynamics. Recovery from CS is possible with the correct support, effective boundaries communication, and guidance!

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Uniquely Us workbook about neurodiverse Christian ASD ADHD relationships

Yes, neurodiversity can cause emotional disconnection. Individuals with ASD and ADHD often face unique challenges in feeling secure, maintaining social-emotional connections, identifying or expressing their own feelings, and recognizing the emotions of others. Additionally, they may be particularly sensitive to rejection, which can lead to emotional distancing and conflict avoidance. However, with effective ASD ADHD assessments and a focus on boundaries communication, these challenges in neurodiverse relationships can be successfully addressed and overcome!

ASD / ADHD ASSESSMENTS

Here are some of the available online assessments for ASD and ADHD. When a test is designed as a self-evaluation for a neurodiverse individual, it can be beneficial for their partner or one or more close family members to also take the ASD ADHD assessments. For example, if a husband is exploring his neurodiversity, his wife could also participate and provide insights on how he presents and behaves. This collaborative approach adds depth to the evaluations, as accurately self-reporting in terms of boundaries communication and how one appears in a relationship can be challenging. (Schedule a 25 min consultation for more information about neurodiverse relationships.)


Online Autism Test For Adults 


Autism Spectrum Quotient Self Test

Partner Rating of Autistic and Personality Traits (P-RAPT ©)

Camouflaging Autistic Traits Questionnaire (CAT-Q) 

Female Autism Test (ADDitudeMag.com) 


ADHD Online Assessments: 


Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale v1.1 (ASRS) 

Self-Test ADHD in Women / Symptoms in Women and Girls

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RECOMMENDED READING

This is a curated list by TOPIC.

(All titles are linked to Amazon.com for easy ordering!)


NEURODIVERSITY & RELATIONSHIPS:


Uniquely Us: Gracefully Navigating the Maze of Neurodiverse Marriage


Embracing the Autism Spectrum: Finding Joy & Hope Navigating the NeuroDiverse


The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome


Aspergers in Love: Couple Relationships and Family Affairs


Emotionally Healthy Relationships


Christian Codependence Recovery Workbook


Escaping Enemy Mode: How Our Brains Unite or Divide Us


Landscapes of the Soul: How the Science and Spirituality of Attachment Can Move You into Confident Faith, Courage, and Connection


Bold Love 


How to Act Right When Your Spouse Acts Wrong,


BOUNDARIES & COMMUNICATION:


Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life


Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You


Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving


Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself


I Hear You: The Surprisingly Simple Skill Behind Extraordinary Relationships


The Best Yes: Making Wise Decisions in the Midst of Endless Demands


The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations for Codependents


WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIPS:

10 Lifesaving Principles for Women in Difficult Marriages


Change My Relationship: 365 Daily Devotions for Christians in Difficult Relationships


The Emotionally Healthy Woman


Find Your People: Building Deep Community in a Lonely World


PERSONAL & SPIRITUAL GROWTH:

Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature


Try Softer: A Fresh Approach to Move Us out of Anxiety, Stress, and Survival Mode--and into a Life of Connection and Joy


Joyful Journey: Listening to Immanuel


Victory Over the Darkness: Realize the Power of Your Identity in Christ


40 Days to a Joy-Filled Life: Living the 4:8 Principle


The Immanuel Approach for Emotional Healing and for Life


Does God Really Like Me?


Your Best Life In Jesus' Easy Yoke: Rhythms of Grace to De-Stress and Live Empowered


CHRISTIAN SEPARATION & DIVORCE


Emotionally Destructive Marriage: How to Find Your Voice and Reclaim Your Hope


The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships 


The Life-Saving Divorce Audio book


Surviving an Unwanted Divorce: A Biblical, Practical Guide to Letting Go 



For those interested in ASD and ADHD assessments, these resources can provide valuable insights into effective communication and relationship management.

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