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NOW AVAILABLE: "UNIQUELY US"

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Uniquely Us book about neurodiverse Christian ASD ADHD relationships

Uniquely Us explores the complicated connection between autism, marriage, and faith and provides a path forward for the neurodiverse couples working together in this journey. Has a coupon inside for a Free eBook to use or share!


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Coaches Corner podcast about ASD ADHD relationships

WHO should use this book? 

...and HOW should they use it? 

Reading is a great place to START when learning about your neurodiverse relationship, but it's often not enough to make changes.  Dr. Stephanie Holmes and Barbara Grant discuss how use Uniquely Us  to improve your ND relationship.


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Uniquely Us workbook about neurodiverse Christian ASD ADHD relationships

The Uniquely Us authors know it is not enough to read the book:  combining the workbook with coaching can help you  make progress and do the work of applying the knowledge as action. Use individually or in a group!


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Download these PDFs to get an overview of my coaching practice and the ways I approach dealing with issues in neurodiverse couple's relationships. 

💠 Roadmap to Hope & Healing (couples) (pdf)

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💕Roadmap to Joy (Individual) (pdf)

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💠 Roadmap to Joy & Discernment (Individual) (pdf)

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The A-B-C-D-E's of Neurodiverse Couple Burnout (pdf)

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💕 Boundary Script-A LOVE Sandwich (pdf)

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UNIQUELY US: Workbook (see above link to book) (pdf)

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RECOMMENDED READING

This is a curated list of books by TOPIC.

(All titles are linked to Amazon.com for easy ordering!)

 

NEURODIVERSITY & RELATIONSHIPS:


  • Uniquely Us: Gracefully Navigating the Maze of Neurodiverse Marriage*
  • The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome*
  • Aspergers in Love: Couple Relationships and Family Affairs
  • Emotionally Healthy Relationships: Discipleship that Deeply Changes Your Relationship with Others
  • Christian Codependence Recovery Workbook*
  • Landscapes of the Soul: How the Science and Spirituality of Attachment Can Move You into Confident Faith, Courage, and Connection*
  • Escaping Enemy Mode: How Our Brains Unite or Divide Us*


BOUNDARIES & COMMUNICATION:


  • Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life*
  • Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving
  • I Hear You: The Surprisingly Simple Skill Behind Extraordinary Relationships*


WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIPS:


  • 10 Lifesaving Principles for Women in Difficult Marriages*
  • The Emotionally Healthy Woman: Eight Things You Have to Quit to Change Your Life*
  • Find Your People: Building Deep Community in a Lonely World


SPIRITUAL GROWTH:


  • Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature
  • Try Softer: A Fresh Approach to Move Us out of Anxiety, Stress, and Survival Mode--and into a Life of Connection and Joy
  • Joyful Journey: Listening to Immanuel*
  • Victory Over the Darkness: Realize the Power of Your Identity in Christ*
  • 40 Days to a Joy-Filled Life: Living the 4:8 Principle
  • The Immanuel Approach for Emotional Healing and for Life
  • Does God Really Like Me?


CHRISTIAN SEPARATION & DIVORCE:


  • The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships 
  • Surviving an Unwanted Divorce: A Biblical, Practical Guide to Letting Go While Holding Yourself Together
  • Divorce Decision Decoded: The Revolutionary Guide for Women to Get Clarity & Certainty in 30 Days



ASD / ADHD ASSESSMENTS

Here are some of the available  online  self-evaluations forASD / ADHD.. When a test is designed as a "self-assessment" for a neurodiverse individual, it's helpful for their partner or one or more close family members to also take the test, too - i..e., if a husband is evaluating his neurodiversity, the wife could also take the test and report on her observations of how her husband' presents / behaves This helps provide some dimensionality to the tests, as it's hard for anyone to accurately self-report in terms of how they might come across in a  relationship. 

Online Autism Test For Adults – 2023 Version


Autism Trait Self-Assessment


Autism Trait Assessment – Partner Rating


Camouflaging Autistic Traits Questionnaire (CAT-Q)


Female Autism Test (ADDitudeMag.com)


ADHD Online Assessment:

Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale v1.1 (ASRS)


Adult ADHD Test


Self-Test ADHD in Women / Symptoms in Women and Girls


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Certifications & Affiliations

Neurodiverse autism ADHD logo
International Christian Counseling Institute
Neurodiverse Christian Couples Counseling
Masters Marriage and Family Therapy
Certified Autism Specialist
autism aspergers association

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